Sexting helps to keep the flame of your relationship burning.
An ongoing fantasy might take days to craft, all that is foreplay in the erotic bank.
You might discover new exciting things within your sexual templates to try out in reality!
As you wait for your partner’s reply to your thoughtful text your heart fills with excitement.
And when that text is meet with appreciation, suddenly you might find that you feel a little better about yourself.
In the talk before starting, set up expectations for things such as: times it is ok and not ok to sext, what excites you most, what kind of pictures or videos might your partner enjoy, what do you do with the messages after the fantasy is complete, and how to best use sexting to amp yourselves up for sex.
Keeping Sext Safe If you have a phone issued to you from your work then you might want to consider having a separate phone for sexting, unless you’re cool with Phyllis from IT reading your lovely smut.
In a long term relationship it is easy to neglect your roles as lovers because other roles, like that of parents, is often demanding.
Sexting allows an ongoing erotic connection to be felt throughout the day and or week, so you can be a parent and a sexual being.
We now have a dynamic medium to express our erotic selves.
Technology has provided us with the ability to use pictures, videos, emjois and more to craft our erotic narratives with others.
The term is a relatively new, it came into the lexicon in 2007, although it did not enter the “Merriam-Webster Collegiate Dictionary” until 2012.