It all started with my father who, trying his hardest to console a weepy teenager who didn’t have a date to prom, told me that it wasn’t my fault that men didn’t want to date me. He totally meant it as a compliment — he’d raised a strong, outspoken young woman, and he knew it — so I tried to take it as such.
Although it is seen as a negative quality in many interpersonal interactions, it can be helpful in sports, business, and other competitive environments.
Learning to be intimidating can also help you avoid being intimidated by others.
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Hello everone well it seems that all through my high school years I've had chances with girls that I didn't know about until recent and one girl told me she was intimidated to approach me cause I was quiet and always had a stricltly buisness look to so she said. The less you know about someone, the more of a stranger they are to you.
I'm a people person and I'll talk to anyone but a lot of times I know for myself I'm very goal oriented and very determined if theres something I want to accomplish. The way people are who have the energy to socialize a lot, often do have the approachable vibe (dont forget that smile! And the more people know about them, the less intimidating they become.
A guy with your drive will be financially secure at 30 and the guys out partying and getting the chicks will be calling you "Sir"... You have ambition and can see how your friends act stupid. I think the right girl is going to just love this about you.
i get these phrases all the time 1 - wow ur so tall and big you scare me 2 - wow ur so strong you scare me 3 - i bet ur a teddy bear really... but going out and having fun and chatting is the key, cuz u dont get anywhere at home on your own! And the less people talk to me, the more of a mystery I remain - again which leads back to intimidating.
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