No confidence in dating

Despite what most guys think, the signs of confidence that great women look for in a man have nothing to do with acting “tough” or “dominant.” I’ve said it a bazillion times…great women don’t see a man as potential “relationship material” based on his looks, money, or cheesy pick-up lines.

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Naturally, a man doesn’t need to show them all to get the attention of a great woman…but if he manages to show her just a few, chances drastically increase that she’ll start “feeling it” for him.

1) An “Easy-Going” Attitude Listen…“easy-going” does not mean being so laid back when you first meet a woman that you’re practically asleep.

This is very important so I wantyou to maul this over for a minute.

When I go through the quick process (2-3seconds) of going into my head andthinking about ''just the right thing tosay'', it usually gets a bad response, fromwomen and men actually. Itsbecause they can sense that you arecoming from a place of neediness, i.e.

For example, it’s okay to look across the room at some other guy and say something cocky like, “Look at that guy’s facial hair…I think 1975 wants it back.” But ONLY if he’s HUMBLE enough to add a comment like, “Believe me, I know…mine was just like it.” 4) He Has A Sense of Humor File this one under “No-Brainer”…a great sense of humor is the most instant, obvious, magnetic force that makes a woman sense a man’s confidence…and therefore feel the first sparks of attraction for him.

That’s why I suggest that guys do whatever they can to cultivate a “comic sensibility”, even it means just reading a few books about the theory and structure of comedy and timing.

Right” just because he looks like Brad Pitt…but rest assured she’ll instantly rule him out if he doesn’t look “right”…caring about himself enough to attend to the basics of appearance which communicate a positive, healthy self-image.

Again, this doesn’t mean that a man has to buy trendy clothes…wear a “scent”…or look like an obsessive gym rat.

Talk to everyone, not justgirls, and just be a social guy.

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