If you can modify your own language to be the same as the person you are talking to, this can go a long way towards building rapport and trust.
For example, if you can determine that someone is a visual person, you would be better off describing how something looks rather than how something sounded.
Mirroring is simply the process of mimicking subtle behaviours within whoever we are communicating.
Before you go and start mimicking someone's every word, be aware that mirroring must be subtle as to appear to be unconscious!
The most sound theory of reasoning states that this is because spiders are so unusual compared to ourselves.
Snakes, octopodes and other creatures that are so different from ourselves are often subject to fear. If you turned around and there was a big purple octopus between you and the door, would you pick it up and move it out of the way, or would you prefer someone else did that for you? The point is, the more different something/someone is from ourselves, the more we fear it.
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