Like us, they have habitual ways of sabotaging themselves when it comes to romance and love.
Understanding dating patterns of the dating games men play can liberate us from these self-blaming thoughts.
Instead we can more easily say – and understand – that, We can view relationships in a more balanced way, examining more objectively who did what to whom.
The reason why she expected that, was that he had told her that. It has been believed that women rule the world of manipulation and relationship mind games. I have worked over the past few years to decipher this weird code of conduct that constitute the dating games that men play and for all my girls out there, and here are the results!! In the case that I have described above, this is the game that all Troys play.
But, as many of the perceptive ones may predict, he didn't call her till 3 days later. While women may be the queens, men are not far behind. In fact, because of the fact that it is least expected from them to play games, they have the upper hand. In this mind game, they charm the woman when they meet them.
However, the men don't call up for a date till 3 days after. The woman feels relieved (which is not really what she needs to feel), and the man has the upper hand in the relationship.
This puts the woman through a feeling of insecurity in the start. Even though many women are already aware of this one, it has a tendency to work! This is one fact that I have known many men taking advantage of.
Who hasn’t fallen for that grand opening dating game, where they lure us with intoxicating conversations, funny dates, a perfect little heart necklace, delicious kisses and more? Fortunately, I’ve logged many therapy hours listening to men as they’ve opened up and explored their deepest needs and fears.
They tease us with clever poems, roses, daily texts and calls, only to turn around in the blink of an eye and completely disappear or disappoint us.
Whatever the reason may be, "I just got out of a very serious relationship", "my ex-wife/girlfriend left me for another man" or "my parents had a terrible divorce, and that has me scarred for life", don't fall for his sweet talk.