In fact, when people say they want to “take it slow,” it almost seems like they’re doing you a favor by being straight up, but they’re probably not.
Here’s what it could really mean, according to Reddit bros and the Galore staff’s experience. Read all about it here, but basically it means you can’t form feelings for someone if you have sex with them too soon.
I prefer to ease in, because if I move too fast, I miss red flags.” This, in combo with the fact he’s probs not over his ex. And by slow, he means never going above zero MPH on the relationship front.
If you’re only DTF and don’t mind his BS, feel free to keep riding that D.
Otherwise, get out before he thinks his sweet talk actually worked.
“In my single days, I would tell a girl that [I wanted to take things slow] for a couple of reasons,” said Reddit user el_koog.
More often than not, they actually just have performance issues – like whiskey dick, but maybe without the whiskey – that they don’t want you to know about until it’s too late and you’re already semi-attached. “I’m bad at sex and she can’t know until it’s too late,” said Reddit user Real Post All True.
When you’re just out of one relationship, chances are you don’t want to get right into another one – even if your new bae is super chill.It isn’t totally new, and it happens everyday to the baddest of bitches, but it still threw me way off guard.If you’re behind on lingo, “ghosting” is a term used for when the person It’s honestly cringey af most times you step foot in a sex shop – the employees are usually clueless and unhelpful, and you leave feeling almost dirty about trying to enjoy one of life’s greatest pleasures (Aka sex. I’d love to go buy a sex toy in-store without feeling like I was Hi there!Obviously, he’s probably not going to say, “sorry girl, I’m still dreaming of my ex,” so instead he’s going to tell you he wants to “take things slow.” “I have told a girl I wanted to take it slow once when I had just gotten out of a serious relationship and was only ready for an ill-advised and totally mentally unhealthy rebound,” said Reddit user Jack PAnderson.“It didn’t help.” This isn’t the worst, but if you’re worried you’re going to fall for him you should probably back out now, cuz things can get messy.But regardless, you might not want to get involved with a guy like this. “I have to decide for sure I like her before making that connection.” One thing we’ve learned from experience?