During the Victorian Era (1837-1901), romantic love became viewed as the primary requirement for marriage and courting became even more formal — almost an art form among the upper classes.
Their youth will not excuse them from facing the consequences of the course they choose. Why do I want to pair off with a person of the opposite sex?
” Isn’t the basic reason the growing attraction you feel toward those of the opposite sex?
A girl from India explained to a well-known Western marriage counselor: “How would we be able to judge the character of a boy we met and got friendly with? Our parents are older and wiser, and they aren’t as easily deceived as we would be. After all, in the final analysis, it is the way things work out, the results, that determine how good or how bad certain customs are.
In the Bible at Ecclesiastes 7:8, we read: “Better is the end afterward of a matter than its beginning.” And we must admit that in many countries where dating and courtship are the custom, a large percentage of marriages are not working out well but are ending in divorce.
Almost all courting took place in the girl's home, under the eye of watchful parents.
If the courting progressed, the couple might advance to the front porch.
At the end of the evening, the lady would look over her options and choose who would be her escort.
She would notify the lucky gentleman by giving him her own card requesting that he escort her home.
(Galatians ) Many young people, especially in Western lands, look to dating as a prime means of finding enjoyment.