Fat women are just as hot and sexually gifted as women of other shapes, sizes, and abilities.
Being fat doesn't mean we're so hungry for attention that we'll put our own needs aside and do whatever we can to rock your world.
To him, I was f*ckable, but not datable, and he dumped me soon after that conversation.
We might run into one of my buddies," he said moving his body further away from me.
The underlining meaning was clear - he couldn't take the chance that someone he knew would see him with me.
You're not only datable, you're loveable, and worthy of being treated with respect and love.
I regret not standing up for myself when I discovered that the athletic guy was only using me for sex.
If you're with someone who doesn't make you feel beautiful or who isn't proud to have you on their arm, you need to dump their a**.
Being alone is far better than compromising on what you deserve or being made to feel as if you're someone's big dirty secret.But at least I learned, as we all should learn, that I'm responsible for being my biggest advocate and to never accepting anything less than what I need.Every once in a while, I like to poll my readers on the Nerd Love Facebook Page and on Twitter to find out what issues they feel are holding them back when it comes to dating.But when I tried to get him to go to a show or out to dinner with me, he refused.My frustration grew as the months went on, and one day I confronted him. " "We have everything we need here," he answered while simultaneously distracting me by caressing my shoulderblades. "I'm hungry, let's check out that new Indian place around the corner." "No!I had hoped that now, in this day and age of body positivity and acceptance, that men no longer need to hide their desires, and that being labelled as someone who likes fat women isn't the worst thing in the world. Recently, Model and Fat Activist Tess Holliday posted on Instagram, "Y'all wanna have sex with a fat girl AND enjoy it … BUT YALL DON'T WANNA DATE A Fat woman." With over 1100 comments, Tess's followers confirmed that the bigotry, misogyny, and fear of fat-shaming by association was still happening.