We literally talked for 20 minutes and then went and had sex.
You need to show her you’re mature and not some school boy just looking for a quick sexual experience to run and tell your friends about. You need to be able to hold your end of a conversation.
It was this that led to my first experience with an older woman.
She’d come to the beach for the weekend for the same reason I had: to get laid and have fun.
For a start, they are road tested - They know how to please a man, or they'd never have been proposed to.
Moreover, they are unlikely to want anything from you but no strings encounters.
In my recent interview with dating coach, David Wygant, he suggested that men are often the ones who lack confidence and suffer from fear of rejection.
He says that older women have the power to make a connection that turns into a dating opportunity.
You don’t need to tell her you’re older than your years, but you do need to act like a man. Yes, she wants you to tell her how hot she is, but she also wants to talk to you over dinner, during a walk, or lying in bed after you’ve made love.
Make no mistake — older women are looking for men, not boys. Nothing is more attractive to her than a young guy who can fill her needs as a man and in the sack. Part of the turn-on of an older woman is her intellect and accomplishments.
Nature’s paradox is the sexes have never been aligned properly.
That’s why your older women isn’t interested in men her own age. They are ready to settle into middle age and she feels like a teenager. She suddenly feels like she’s got a Ferrari between her legs.
You can be certain that on The Affair you will find women looking for men - why else would they be here?