In most cases, pictures showing you engaged in a highly unpopular activity, or representing a controversial opinion, should be left out of a dating profile.This is true even if you absolutely require the other person to be into the same things, thus wanting to filter out anyone who isn’t, but that’s the topic of next week’s article.Disclaimer: The following is aimed at women looking for men, and men looking for women, respectively.
Did you get their permission to put their face on a public dating profile?
We can’t tell, and in most cases, a photo like that can only harm our perception of you. Similarly to the above, we can’t really tell if that’s your child, nephew/niece, or a friend’s child, and specifying as much in your profile text just isn’t enough.
Even if it’s your child and you want to filter out everyone who would not want to date a single parent, an online dating profile is just not the right place to share pictures of kids.
If you’re a social person (or would like to appear as one), having a few group shots in your profile is generally a good idea.
By the time people are looking at your last image, they have most likely forgotten that spectacular first picture that made them open your profile.
This is especially true if all the photos in-between did not offer a clear view of you.
For ease of reading, all statements are generalized to apply to the majority and caveats are mostly left out.
One very common mistake people make is to consider what they would like to see in the profiles they are looking at, and crafting their own profiles on that basis, including picture selection.
There are many opinions and even studies on what constitutes a good dating profile picture, and the deeper we delve into the finer points, the more the advice tends to become situational. Following the advice below should help you avoid common mistakes and provide a very good starting point.
Tinder, for example, allows you to display up to six pictures on your profile.
Do you have six equally great pictures of yourself? Otherwise, you should use as many good pictures as you have of yourself, and not a single one more.